PW invited parents of Brahm Dutt Blue Bells Public School, Sector 10, Gurugram to share how they ensure their children bond as siblings

“Nurturing strong bonding between our children –Alabhya (class VII) and Taakshvi (class II) — is a joy and a responsibility. In our home, shared responsibilities and traditions such as cooking or playing games together teach valuable lessons of cooperation and teamwork. Every week, we learn to appreciate each other, weaving threads of love and unity. Our children learn by mimicking our behaviour of practising respect, patience, and forgiveness. When conflicts arise, I guide them to resolve issues patiently through communication while giving them lessons in developing empathy and emotional strength. Ultimately, our goal is to nurture lifelong sibling bonds rooted in love” — Jyotika Raizada, teacher at BD Blue Bells Public School, Gurugram

“Early sibling bonding can shape a lifetime of support and companionship when nurtured through empathy, shared experiences, and respect. To strengthen ties between our children — Amay (class VI) and Ayshi (class XII) — we prioritise teamwork over competition, giving joint tasks that promote collaboration and celebrate success together. By modelling calm conflict resolution, we teach our children to express emotions and listen with care. Moreover we avoid comparisons and instead recognize each child’s unique strengths to build confidence without rivalry. We also encourage mutual support through everyday acts of kindness and encouragement. Lasting sibling bonds develop gradually through intentional parenting that values connection over correction” — Tanushi Agrawal, Vice President, Natwest India Pvt Ltd

“Strong sibling bonds built on shared memories and unconditional love, require thoughtful nurturing. Creating a “we” culture through inclusive language like “Let’s solve this together” or “our family stands as one team” has taught our children — Sakasaham (class XI) and Raksita (class VII) — unity with empathy. Simple family rituals such as game nights, cooking, or evening walks strengthen connections more than any grand gesture can. Conflicts, when managed with empathy, help our children develop understanding and respect for each other. Ultimately, the strength of sibling bonding is not defined by the absence of disagreements, but on love, cooperation, and shared experiences” — Sunita Pandita, homemaker

“Building healthy sibling bonds require a nurturing, fair family environment and consistent modelling of respect, affection, and healthy communication. As parents of Ayaan (class IV) and Aanya (class IX), we organise shared experiences — family dinners, game nights, and vacations — to create joyful memories and stronger connection. Each child also enjoys individual time with us to feel uniquely valued. We also make it a point to engage in activities that release the feel-good hormone oxytocin, such as laughter, play, and cuddling. Involving the older sibling in caring for the younger fosters responsibility and affection, while cheering for each other’s achievements reinforces mutual pride and lasting friendship” — Supriya Arora, teacher at BD Blue Bells Public School, Sector 10, Gurugram