PW invited parents of CP Goenka Group Schools, Maharashtra to share their insights on how they help their children develop the virtue of patience

“I guide my son Shlok (class V) to reflect on situations that trigger impatience and teach him the value of taking a step back before reacting. Teaching children to set realistic expectations fosters a sense of understanding that all wants and needs are not met instantly. Delaying dessert until after dinner or saving up money for a gift are practices that build resilience against instant gratification. Above all, as parents, we must demonstrate patience through our own actions, showcasing the positive outcomes that emerge from composed behaviour” — Tanushree Ameya Pradhan, energy healer and interspecies communicator

“I take extra care to appreciate every effort of my daughter Shagun (class VI) to display patience and composed behaviour which we have taken great pains to teach her over the years. This positive reinforcement boosts her confidence in demonstrating anger management skills. I have taught her some specific anger management techniques including taking a deep breath, calming mind and body, taking a brisk walk, showing respect towards peers and elders, and refraining from holding grudges” — Reedhima Sandeep Sareen, preschool coordinator, C P Goenka International School, Oshiwara, Andheri

“In my opinion, the home, school and community environment of my children — Pratham (class IX) and Panav (class VI) — play a critical role in developing their personality and building the virtues of patience and tolerance. Children who don’t feel psychologically safe grow up impatient and intolerant as they are inherently insecure and lack confidence to manage challenges the world throws at them. It is important to raise independent and confident children in safe and nurturing environments to prepare them to face an increasingly volatile world. Love and care go a long way to ensure this happens” — Pooja Agarwal, homemaker

“Teaching my daughter Maria (class V) the virtue of patience has taken a toll on my own patience but I must admit it has hugely helped to regulate her emotions and develop empathy and tolerance for others. As much as it is important for her personal growth, it will help her succeed academically and socially. Starting from her early years, we made sure not to give in to her every demand unless genuinely required. We also made it a point to praise her for the patience she displays” — Alifiya Aziz Gandhi, entrepreneur