PW invited Chennai parents to share insights on how they teach their children the value of patience

“Our 5-year-old Aadhira is full of opinions and loves to be heard, whether at home or in school. Once, when she got frustrated because things didn’t go her way, we gently helped her understand that every opinion matters, but not all can be accepted.

When she wants something, we set a waiting period and appreciate her patience with stars and surprise rewards. Slowly, she’s learning that patience isn’t about waiting quietly, but about trusting that the right time will come.”

— Kavya Arun, IT Professional, Cap Gemini

“As parents, we believe that patience is a virtue best cultivated from the earliest age.

Our four-year-old Hansini is naturally curious and energetic, so we gently include small lessons in her daily routine. When she’s impatient for a treat or toy, we ask her to help with a small task — like arranging her books — before we oblige, turning waiting into a positive experience.

Storytime tales of perseverance help her understand that patience leads to good outcomes. These moments make learning enjoyable and show Hansini that waiting can be rewarding.”

— Hema Bapireddygari, Junior Research Fellow

“I have made an effort to inculcate patience in my children — Lavanya (Class X) and Riyansh (Class V) — through teamwork and understanding from a young age, much like we do in school.

I explain to them the importance of respecting differences in how friends learn, play, or solve problems, and how settling disagreements with kindness and calm is the best mantra. I have taught them to accept and respect each other, even when things don’t go their way.

Over the years, my children have learnt that patience has made them stronger, kinder, and ready for any challenge.”

— Pavitra, Chief Learning Officer, Little Millennium School, Sholinganallur

“I’ve learned that the best way to teach my children — upper kindergarteners Raavi and Avyaan — patience is by demonstrating the virtue myself.

I use small everyday moments — like waiting in a queue or for dinner — to explain why waiting for one’s turn is important. Whenever they exhibit even a little patience, I make it a point to appreciate their actions. I also play games with them that involve taking turns, and remind them that some of the best things in life take time and come only with patience.”

— Manisha Raorane, IT Professional, Accenture